Why is it so important for us as humans to think we are right?
To be ‘wrong’ implies you are not worthy of being included in the human race. When someone has been excluded, through harsh treatment of words or deeds, they conclude they have no rights within the family or unit they are trying to be a part of. This is many times interpreted as being created from fear, but we see it as an integral part of the soul being not fully present with the person in conflict. Harsh treatment severs or nicks away at the soul aspect and leaves pieces or parts of the person missing or temporarily lost. It is this missing part that you then continue to seek throughout life in all relationships. Unconsciously not realizing that which you are trying to demand as ‘right’ is really the one thing you are trying to make right by relocating. Being ‘right’ gives the impression that you can indeed create wholeness of self, when in reality, you are seeking wholeness of spirit.
Is this the same reason that we struggle or fight with one another?
Yes. Again each person is seeking to find their place in a situation. Each person in a conflict is trying to create a sense of fullness or wholeness in the situation. What each person is seeking is really their own wholeness of spirit.
Anything that seemingly threatens any part of this illusion will ignite a persons reasoning to defend their believed right to this wholeness. Truth says that wholeness can not be controlled or gathered from another through demands or force, but only established from within.
Wholeness can also be collected with the help of spirit helpers or guides. These guides, from the other side of your veil, are there specifically to aid each of you in locating and retrieving these lost or missing parts of the soul and spirit.
Truth again says that any ‘missing parts’ from trauma are not actually missing but floating outside of the aura to greater or lesser degrees and can in turn be located and retrieved. Many times one may need the aid of a skilled human assistant as well a spirit guide helper.
What should we do when confronted by someone that is acting in this conflicted way?
Not all of you realize there are missing and retrievable parts of the soul that you are seeking in your confusion. Because of this, seeking correction or completion to the aspects of the spirit is always an individual choice depending on the awareness of each of you.
Be patient and kind with one another. We speak of compassion in many of our transmissions and this one factor is most important in all conflicts. Each time you remember that you and the other are one, you will remember that the conflict or struggle you are witnessing belongs to you and to the other at the same time. The other is reflecting some part of you that has not fully healed. Remember to act as witness in any conflict rather than being a full participant.
In this way you will be able to see with greater clarity how the other is acting as a mirror to some unresolved conflict within you. This takes patience and kindness to your Self also. This is why we continue to remind you of loving your Self. There is no greater way to continue to heal and become whole in your incarnations.
We love you,
St. Germaine and the Healing Council of Light